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Post by shebaatje on Mar 26, 2011 2:54:10 GMT -5
So, I didn't know how I should feel about this, but I thought coming to you for opinions/ ideas could get my mind straight.
How do you feel when petz you've only adopted out recently to other people are suddenly used in a breeding service, so other people can request breedings from them? I mean, especially if I bred that pet solely for them... Obviously I know that once I've adopted the pet out it's the property of that person, but I don't know...I just like to see someone enjoy their petz first before putting it in a breeding service. Does that even make any sense?
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Post by carly2345 on Mar 26, 2011 6:48:21 GMT -5
i think its a little bit out of order if they have only just adopted them x
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Post by Mkay. on Mar 26, 2011 6:54:46 GMT -5
Some people do only adopted bred petz for breeding. Opening a breeding service is sharing that pet with the community, and that may hurt you, but I'm sure it's not their intentions! My bet would be PM the person saying how you feel and hopefully you can resolve the issue and agree halfway or something? When I adopt out bred petz, I don't mind what really happens to them because they aren't mine anymore. I don't know. :/
I'd understand if you handraised them though. o:
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Post by shebaatje on Mar 26, 2011 9:31:34 GMT -5
^ Ah yes=] I understand that when you sent someone a pet then it's theirs and they can do with it as they please, but this pet I bred for someone especially, since she applied for another pet that I decided to adopt out to another person who had applied for it. So I made time to breed another equally beautiful pet (at least I hope I did), because I did feel like she wrote a honest application and I do like to think that I'm not a greedy person when it comes to sharing petz etc. but not a few days ago did I receive a message that she got it and then today, I see it in a breeding service. I know I shouldn't be so upset about it and I think it's probably best to just pm her, but what do I say? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and in the end it is her pet, but I don't know?=/ I wasn't expecting to see that pet in a breeding service so soon...
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Post by Mkay. on Mar 26, 2011 16:59:54 GMT -5
If it really bothers you this much, than I'd PM her and give her a simple "Hey, I don't mean to sound rude or anything, but I worked specially to breed you that pet, and I'm uncomfortable with it being in a breeding service so soon. I know it's your pet now n' all, but it'd be nice if you wait a little bit longer. To get to know it, right? c:" Or something? If your honest and nice about it, the way the person reacts is the person's true colors, right? c:
I wouldn't be bothered by it at all, and I'm sure many agree. We don't intend on making someone uncomfortable!
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Post by hanna on Mar 27, 2011 9:32:09 GMT -5
It made sense I can see where you're coming from. I wouldn't be offended if It's just a pet I popped out in a freebie adoption, but if it was a pet I asked for apps/trades/i naturally raised for them I'd be a little angry. My suggestion is that if you don't want it happening, maybe add it into the rules.
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Post by shebaatje on Mar 27, 2011 11:34:15 GMT -5
Thank you for the advice<3 it really helped getting my mind straight again and it's actually now all resolved=]. I decided to pm her and everything worked out alright.
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Post by Mkay. on Mar 27, 2011 15:46:37 GMT -5
I'm really glad. c:
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