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Post by Cat on Apr 21, 2009 17:57:28 GMT -5
nothing homophobic please just interesting to see how wide of a mix we have here! i put neither because i was astounded when i did my work experience at a groomers and i met a girl who was around 20 who genuinely had never been interested in anyone. she'd never been attracted to anyone, never had feelings for anyone etc.. she didn't understand how other people did. i put other because.. well.. people are full of surprises i personally am all for men!
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Post by Zekumi on Apr 21, 2009 21:45:01 GMT -5
I'm starting to wonder about myself. :/ I'm not sexually attracted to girls (although I suppose I am an admirer of the female form?) but I'm really not digging very many guys, either.
Of coarse I've got my mate, who I adore and love, but so few guys have ever gotten my attention beyond friend. I've had like ... two or three crushes in my *whole* life (and they weren't really ~sexually driven~ attractions).
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Post by Alex@Marvel on Apr 21, 2009 21:49:07 GMT -5
It depends for me.
I've been attracted to some females who have smarts and quite a bit of charm. Would I want an intimate relationship with them though? No, I just find them rather interesting and usually pretty.
As for men..defenitly attracted to them in another way. ^^ At least if they're halfway decent looking, don't curse worse than a sailor and their pants aren't hanging around their ankles. Yup, I'm picky.
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Post by Musicali3 on Apr 21, 2009 22:09:49 GMT -5
i'm attracted to guys.
but like i think some women are hott.. like i think we are all hott and like i just see women as beautiful and just feminine. we are as we should be.
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Post by Starstruck on Apr 22, 2009 2:08:23 GMT -5
Gotta love the guys . Honestly have never been attracted to a girl.
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Post by Ela @ GK on Apr 22, 2009 2:39:11 GMT -5
I think that is a fine way to be, I am very much the same. I hold very little interest in either gender in a sexual / intimate way, save the a very select few guys who have captured my attention. In total, I have been intimately attracted to 4 guys : My first boyfriend, my second boyfriend, my current boyfriend, and my best friend (he is aware and returns the attraction, but we choose not to do anything with it). Other than that; I don't feel intimately attracted to much of anyone.
I can, however, say I do find people of both genders attractive in a general sense. I find some women to be absolutely gorgeous, and I find some men absolutely hansom! Would I date them : Unlikely, as that attraction I feel towards them is very different than the attraction I feel when I am interested in the person.
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Post by Cat on Apr 22, 2009 3:45:06 GMT -5
I'm starting to wonder about myself. :/ I'm not sexually attracted to girls (although I suppose I am an admirer of the female form?) but I'm really not digging very many guys, either. Of coarse I've got my mate, who I adore and love, but so few guys have ever gotten my attention beyond friend. I've had like ... two or three crushes in my *whole* life (and they weren't really ~sexually driven~ attractions). i'm very similar. i know i'm straight, but unless they're stupidly good looking i don't really see people i walk past as hot. but then the friends i have that do that go to parties and get with as many lads as they can, whereas my best friend who is like me prefer steady, long term relationships. i've also wondered if i was interested in girls because i am so obsessed with their bodies but eventually i realised it's not that i'm attracted to their bodies - it's that there will be certain aspects of their bodies that i want for myself etc. so in total, i actually find myself looking at girls more than i do boys - but i'm definately straight. odd huh?
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Post by mochalatte on Apr 22, 2009 3:54:18 GMT -5
^ oh wow, that is seriously exactly like me.... weirddd.... I'm an other chick 'cause I dunno anything xD
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Post by loxfiredance on Apr 22, 2009 8:23:36 GMT -5
I'm definately straight, but I've seen a few girls that might well have "turned" me in the past!
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Post by Rinkái on Apr 22, 2009 10:16:37 GMT -5
><;;
both.
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Post by Devilchun on Apr 22, 2009 11:11:46 GMT -5
i'm very similar. i know i'm straight, but unless they're stupidly good looking i don't really see people i walk past as hot. but then the friends i have that do that go to parties and get with as many lads as they can, whereas my best friend who is like me prefer steady, long term relationships. i've also wondered if i was interested in girls because i am so obsessed with their bodies but eventually i realised it's not that i'm attracted to their bodies - it's that there will be certain aspects of their bodies that i want for myself etc. so in total, i actually find myself looking at girls more than i do boys - but i'm definately straight. odd huh? You nailed it right there; that's exactly how I am. :P
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Post by Xiao on Apr 22, 2009 14:52:45 GMT -5
I'm interested in men. I have never been attached to a girl. I think of girls as friends, but some boys turn me on. I find myself looking at guys a lot.
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Post by Toothpick @ Tortelc on Apr 22, 2009 15:32:28 GMT -5
Guys. I like girls as friends, but nothing more.
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Post by AnxietyMuffin on Apr 22, 2009 17:38:51 GMT -5
I'm /other/, pansexual. =P Don't care about looks really, it's the personality I'm attracted to, male or female, transgender or androgene. Doesn't matter. Though someone's voice has a lot to do with it... nom.
Not to say I don't find some people attractive, just not many. And I don't drool over just anyone. I mean, my list of 'famous' guys I would drool over are Tim Curry, Tom Lehrer, and Voltaire. Tim Curry is a cutie (even in his old age, dammit! D: ) and has an amazing voice and accent. Tom Lehrer, hilarious, great voice, demented grin. Voltaire... well... if you've ever seen him... looks like the devil... ehard his songs... dude, amazing voice. I fall asleep to that stuff, man.
Yup. =P
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Post by Zekumi on Apr 22, 2009 18:57:57 GMT -5
^ Teehee. :D I know Tim Curry from cartoons. BD
Very recognizable.
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